Grandfather passed peacefully with Nancy and Emily in the room with him. He was at home, at Amanda's and just went to sleep. Taylor, Emily and Jayden has just finished singing him Primary Songs and Happy Birthday, because he always thought it was his birthday.
Adam was grateful to have spent time with Grandfather while home on business in the last few weeks. He was able to see him a week ago, on one of his last good days. We will miss him and are sad we will not be with the family to celebrate his life. We are so grateful for the knowledge we have that families are forever. We know Grandfather is having a wonderful reunion with loved ones that have passed before him.
Grandfather and the Vance Allen Greats at our house Easter 2014
Tuesday was just another day here. Nothing special to report.
Wednesday was crazy busy. I hosted the Lunch Bunch group here. We spent from 11:00 till 2:30p.m. making ang paos out of fabric for an old folks home here. 8 ladies sat around my kitchen table with 4 sewing machines and worked on the nearly 50 red envelopes. It was fun to chat and to work together to serve the elderly of our community. Afterwards I rushed down to school to take Emmie a snack before dance and give her her temple bag for mutual tonight. I also had to pick up Lacie.
When I got to school I found Lacie in tears. Some girls in her class that she studies with in the Library everyday, wrote her, what she thought where kind notes in Chinese. When she showed them to another friends, that girl told her what they really said. Lacie found out they had really written things like.... Lacie is mean, Lacie is fat, Lacie is short, Lacie is ugly, We don't like Lacie, We don't want to be her friend. It totally devastated her. She thought these girls were her friends. Lacie gave me the notes and I asked the Mandarin Liberian to read them for me. She wouldn't tell me what all they said because she didn't want Lacie to hear it. She told me it was all mean things and that it basicly said they didn't want to be Lacie's friend. She hugged Lacie and told her to not listen to the girls. That they are not true friends. She then told me I needed to talk to the teacher about it and show Mr. Martin the notes. It was against school values to treat each other like that. I felt so bad for Lacie. She was so sad and felt so bad about herself. At home she would have had Elsie to turn to or watch her back or other friends she had know all her life to turn to. Here, these girls are the only friends she has right now. Lacie thought these girls were her new friends. Now she has no one. Lacie is always kind to everyone. She is really good at reaching out to others and especial those that need a friend. That's makes this even TOUGHER! Hate days like this!
Thursday I had to go visiting teaching to a new lady I met Felicity Lin. She has a baby girl and 2 boys. Her husband is not a member. She is very nice. I really liked her. We had a nice visit. She has juice and muffins for us. The taxi ride was brutal on me so I had to politely decline. Which was a risk of offending because of her culture. Luckily I had my c-bands on was green so it was not hard to convince her I didn't feel well enough to eat her treats. I was terrified I was going to get sick.
Felicity did tell me about a parade right down on the road leading to the square on Saturday that I can take Lacie to. The children dress up in their costumes and go store to store and are given candy. Lacie is trying to get me to get her another costume. We brought her flight attendant dance costume.
Lacie is out of school today and tomorrow for parent teacher conferences. When I got home from Felicity's, Lacie and I walked over to take Becky Compton. I had made her bread for part of the VT message. My companion hadn't made and appointment with her. While there Sara wanted to come over and play. So instead of going to lunch together we stop and got a subway sandwich and went back for the girl could play. They played dolls for a bit and then went downstairs to play the basket ball, and ping pong extra. While down there they asked to play basket ball with some boys from their school. Some how things went very wrong. They boys flipped the girls off and swore at them. One pulled Sara's hair so she punched him. Lacie said that Sara was being bossy and playing rough. Knowing her I can totally see that. So now there are boys at school that are upset with Lacie and Sara. GREAT! Just what Lacie needed this week! According to Becky, Sara is having trouble with boys at school teasing her. Now she has drug Lacie into it. Lacie and Sara do stand out in the crowd with their blonde hair and Sara is lacking in social skills at times. Hope things all work out. I didn't bring it up with Comptons because we only got the true details after Sara left. I figured if Sara tells her parents and they make a deal out of it I will chat with them about it. It's hard to tell someone your daughter is bossy and mean. I don't think Lacie and Sara will be spending a lot of time together.
Friday Lacie and I spent from 10:30 till 12:30 at the school doing her parent teacher conferences. Like everything here it was super intense! Mr. Martin spent an hour with us. Everyone else only gets 20min. Because Lacie is a new student he spent the extra time talking to us and making sure we understood things and talking about every subject and how they do things. It was a really good conference. I really feel like he knows Lacie and is trying to help her be her best. In a very loving and kind way. He is willing to give her extra help in the areas that she is struggling getting caught up to here. We also talked to him about what happened in the Library. He said it was something that the Associate Principle need to be involved in and the counselor. He told Lacie that he knows that the kids in the class like her and that he loves how kind and out going and friendly she is to everyone. He said that the note thing was note tolerated at TAS. It was bulling and it would stop. So Monday there will be a meeting with all involved. Hope it goes well and doesn't add to the problem. Lacie felt better about things when she left. We also visited her Mandrian teacher who loved her and had her do a few videos for her! It was very impressive. Lacie is doing great with it! The music teacher spent an hour playing instruments with Lacie and telling me how much she loved having Lacie. She said she has never had a student be able to get everyone in the class to dance. That's our Lacie! The Art Teacher loved her 3D building and is printing it for her. All the teachers are very impressive.
Art Class
Mr. Martin and his new puppy. Lacie was the only one to get to see it!
Music Teacher and Lacie playing one of MANY instruments and songs together!
Can't miss the recorder duet!

Saturday was spent at the Parade with Lacie. She got a taste of what it was like to live in Singapore. She couldn't go more then a few feet without having a picture taken of her. People would have their children pose with her. It was really crazy. Lacie was a good sport and just posed for everyone of them. Even put her arm around the kids to the delighted the parents. At the mall by us where things started it was crazy busy. There was a line that stretched all the way around the block. When we asked people what the line was for no one knew. They were just standing in line because there was one and something must be free. They must have stood in line for hours with their little kids. CRAZY!!!
Last years dance costume is getting a bit short.
Didn't realized it till she put it on! Oops!
Our Lacie is growing up!
In the whole area here by our condo and down by the school; most of the shops are giving candy to the children dress-up for Halloween. It was a fun event for Lacie. Emmie was at the Stake Youth Brunch today and then at the schools Food Fair. We went to the Food Fair with Lacie for a few minutes after trick-or-treating. It was at the end of it. We didn't stay long because Lacie was embarrassed to be in her costume there. The Food Fair was done huge like everything else here. Made our little Harvest Festival at home look like nothing. They had foods from all over the world to buy. One of the schools parking lots was set up in carnival games and the other parking lot was food booths. Insides was a haunted house, other games and booths to purchase things like books and TAS school apparel.
Leaving he school Joey from the modeling agency stopped us and asked if the girls would model for him. That is the 3 time he has stopped me. We are thinking about letting the girls do it. Several families in the ward have let there kids do it and it has been a positive experience.
Adam and I went on a date later that night. We tried again to go the Flower Market down in Nehu next to Costco but it was closed for some reason. Total disappointing. It is usually open from 4-12 every day. At least that is what the translator on my phone said the sign said. Not sure what the deal was.
Sunday Laice volunteer to sing in the special musical number for the primary program. So she had a practice after church. We had a car full today. We took the Southman older kids to church with us because Ashley sprained her ankle yesterday trick or treating with us. The side walks here are very dangerous at times. Often uneven, whole and steps in random places. You really have to watch where you are walking. sacrament meeting was funny on our row. We had our little family with the Southam's 3 oldest sprinkled among us on our bench. Then Dori's son Colton asked to sit with us after the sacrament. Glad the kids like us and want to be with us.
After church we went to dinner and FHE at the Bishop's house. It was really nice. They missionaries where there, a couple were he is a member and she is not. They have a daughter Lacie's age. There was also a young single adult was there. I don't remember everyone's names. I wish I had Lacie's gift of remembering names. It was a really nice evening. Then we raced home to prepare for Monday. I quickly made homemade Apple Oatmeal muffins for seminary. Carrie called me at the Beck's and ask if I could help her out. Here you have to make everything almost always from scratch. Apples and Oatmeal are always on hand around our house, so Apple Oatmeal Muffins it was.
Happy Birthday wishes to .... Mr. E who turned 1years old this week. Can't believe Elijah is that old already. Time flies!
What I love about Taiwan.... People actually asked us to take Lacie's picture here. Of course there were a few who didn't or took it on the sly. Most of the people who wanted her picture ask. Nice change from our time in Singapore or China!
Special Welcome Home to Austin. Wish we could have been with family at this great event. So proud of Austin. He has been a faithful missionary and has grown to be an amazing man. See you at Christmas. Can't wait to hear more stories!
All together Again!